If you chose homeschool, this post is for you.
There are six main homeschool approaches – or “styles” – out there. I’m going to very briefly touch on them all just for definition’s sake. If you’re interested in further understanding them, click here.
1. Traditional: This is pretty much school at home. Think text books, schedules, and tests.
2. Classical: A revival of medieval teaching used to educate some of the greatest minds in history. The trivium works children through three stages: grammar, dialectic and rhetoric.
3. Unschooling: This might be called child-led learning or delight-directed, as well. You respond to your child’s interests by basing the curriculum around what he is passionate about.
4. Unit Studies: All subjects are taught through a topical or themed study.
5. Charlotte Mason: Literature-based, rich and vast education on all subjects.
6. Eclectic: A combination of all.
I should tell you I’ve dabbled in all of these at some time in our homeschool journey so far. In fact, I’d even say some subjects are better executed with different styles. For instance, it’s pretty standard to learn math from a text book but how cool is it to invite a virtual instructor into your home to teach your kids to play the piano? Literature, in my humble opinion, is meant to be read aloud and savored – not dissected by multiple choice questions.
There are some other styles that I am less familiar with…
As you can probably guess, there’s no one way to homeschool. In essence, all styles can be eclectic.
That being said, I like to think of a homeschool approach as having two parts – a core philosophy with an adaptable delivery.
Pick a philosophy you most relate to (not every thing little detail will line up; that’s okay) and be prepared to alter things when necessary. If you’re lucky though and you really find an approach that fits your family, there should be very little adapting to be done. My point is this: don’t ever be more devoted to a philosophy or a curriculum than the person you are educating.
So what’s my pick for the most autism-friendly homeschool approach?
Meet Charlotte Mason.
As I read through her series, my internal dialogue was screaming, “Yes! Exactly!” and I knew it was a match for us. It was a match not just because we adhere to many of the principles she teaches (like emphasis on living books and classic literature) but also because many of the things we are struggling with at home (like instilling good habits) is built into her approach.
In short, key words like short lessons, free afternoons, narration, living books, twaddle-free literature, nature study, copy work and habit cultivating come to mind. I’m going to go into detail on each one of the topics that define the Charlotte Mason approach over the next few weeks. For the long version, go to Ambleside Online and see how it differs from the other methods.
But to answer the question I got your attention with in the title…
Life as a special needs mom is difficult – life as a parent of any child is difficult at times. I cannot tell you how much simpler my homeschool got when I found Charlotte Mason. There are two websites you can use to plan your year. My favorite is Simply Charlotte Mason but I have used Ambleside Online for some of the book lists. Both websites provide a complete curriculum outline with many resources for free. Which brings me to my next point…
Autism is expensive. Supplements. Special Diets. Doctors visits. Therapy. The list goes on. The saying goes, if you have a Bible and a library card, you can do Charlotte Mason. That is not far from the truth.
I am seeing the benefit of working in my son’s window. Instead of trying to stretch him beyond his means, short lessons are perfect for him; 10-15 minutes of lessons at a time helps to ensure that I actually have his attention when I am teaching.
Character building, social skills and life skills rank high above academics in our home. Autism is not an irreversible diagnosis. Bottom line. There is no “can’t” as in, “my son can’t pay attention for very long…” or “my son can’t do household chores…” or “my son can’t do self-care…”. Combined with The Son-Rise Program, there is no reason you cannot work on good habits with your autistic child and have unlimited hope for him. Just because it may take longer for him (and it probably will), does not mean that it’s impossible.
Fine motor skill challenges are very common in children with autism. According to Charlotte Mason’s philosophy, when your child is writing, he should be practicing the habit of excellence in perfecting his handwriting to his best abilities. She cautions against ever writing sloppy so narration is the perfect replacement for test taking and written answers.
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